It was neat gin." What was the effect? "It had disastrous consequences! Disastrous!" Did she know what she was doing? "Oh yes. She must have known what she was doing." No wonder Brian grew up to prefer dogs.Of course, I wonder about his adult relationships And his sex life. Has anyone, I ask, ever meant more to you than a Mop or a Nusch? "I think, actually, the answer is probably yes, although I don't want to admit it. I've actually been in love with someone for 27 years." Gosh, I gasp. "But it's a married person, so I only see them three or four times a year." Is it a woman, Brian? Or a man? What is your sexuality? "I think that is rather my affair," he replies I try to trick him OK, when SHE leaves, is it painful? "Unbearable!" he cries And when HE arrives? "Such elation!" I fail. We are not especially good at outwitting each other, it would seem I ask if he's lonely "Oh no. So much to dooooooo." Still, I suspect he might be.All in all, I spend three hours with Mr Sewell, long enough for him to forget to be horrid He serves coffee in china cups on a little tray He offers me a KitKat.

Then, because it is raining quite badly, he offers to give me a lift to the station in his Honda. At the station, I give him an impulsive peck on the cheek goodbye He gets quite flustered "Oh Ooooooo," he goes, blushingly, in his pantomime dame way He is, I think, supremely not used to any affection. Which is why, I insist, we should try to give it to him whenever we can.. DETECTIVES hunting the murderer of the television presenter Jill Dando were looking last night for a "well-groomed" man who was seen fleeing from her home seconds after she was shot on her doorstep. The BBC celebrity's next-door neighbour heard her scream before rushing to the door to find her slumped on the step She was unconscious and covered in blood. A post-mortem examination last night revealed a single gunshot wound to the head. Last night, as tributes poured in for a television presenter whose immense popularity was based on her down-to-earth appeal, police said they were investigating whether Ms Dando, 38, had been killed by a stalker. Only last year, police were called to deal with an obsessive fan who was tormenting her with phone calls and letters, though he is not suspected of having anything to do with yesterday's events.Ms Dando, who had recently announced her engagement and was preparing for the wedding in September, was attacked late yesterday morning as she returned to her house in Fulham, west London.

Her assailant struck seconds after she stepped out of her car.An ambulance crew was called to the scene and struggled to revive her before she was transferred to Charing Cross Hospital She died a little over an hour later, at 1.03pm. Her fiance, Alan Farthing, was called to identify the body.Richard Hughes 32, a financial trader who lived next door to the Crimewatch and Holiday programme presenter, said he had been upstairs when he heard her pull up outside and activate her car alarm "Forty seconds later, I heard a scream .. She was completely unconscious and covered in blood I took a look at her, she was not breathing. Somebody called the emergency services."Police immediately launched a massive hunt for Ms Dando's killer, with three dozen officers involved in house-to-house inquiries. Yesterday evening they sealed off a section of Thames riverbank at Putney, where there were reports that someone may have flung something into the bushes.

Police confirmed they had found an object - possibly a weapon - but it was not clear whether they were linking it to the killing.Detective Chief Inspector Hamish Campbell, leading the investigation, said police were investigating every possibility including the prospect that Ms Dando had been the victim of a stalker.Tributes to Ms Dando, were led yesterday by Tony Hall, chief executive of BBC News He said: "Everyone in BBC News is devastated. She was a wonderful person to work with and was respected and trusted by millions."The murder was even discussed in the Commons with tributes from the Home Secretary and shadow Home Secretary. Other tributes were made by the Queen and Tony Blair.Ms Dando's brother, Nigel, a reporter on the Bristol Evening Post, said he learnt of the tragedy after deciding to investigate early reports of an "incident" involving his sister. He said the news had come as a "huge shock" both to himself and his widowed father.Martyn Lewis, a colleague on the Six O'Clock News, added: "Bewilderment, tears and quiet anger fill the BBC newsroom today."Nick Ross, her co-presenter on Crimewatch, said: "It's just so terrible She was a smashing person.